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Busy Days

Things have been busy busy busy as usual. I spend my days at home, working and watching Jax, who turns 2 on Sunday. (You can follow many of our mini adventure here.) I’ve been using my tiny bits of free time to do DIY projects for Jax (like a play kitchen, toy barn, chalkboard, wall art and art corner), designing and sewing quiet book patterns for my blog, and (at the moment) doing crafts and cleaning for Jax’s second birthday party.

This blog is annoying to write in because the software is so out-of-date. But when I try to update it, everything goes blank and has to be restored from backup. Yikes!

Recently I tried an experiment to see how many hours of work I could get in while watching Jax. My hours were dwindling because he now needs a lot more interaction and playtime. I was coming in at around 24 hours a week and I really needed to be at 30. I decided to overshoot for a week and try for 40. I didn’t make it, but I figured out the best schedule for us right now.

At night, I bring my laptop up to the bedroom. That way, I can get in an hour or two of work while Jax is still asleep or just waking up. Around 9 we start getting ready for our day including my shower, getting us both dressed and making breakfast. We’ve been enjoying having time for scrambled eggs and pancakes! From 10 – 12 we play, do learning activities, run errands and I might clean a bit (if Jax is okay with playing in the playroom on his own for 15 minutes.) At noon he has a snack, but is generally too tired for lunch. He takes a nap and I get back to work. When he wakes up around 2 or 3 (depending on when he got to sleep), I usually take a short break so be can have a larger snack/mini lunch. After that, he plays beside me as I work. He can watch a  couple preschool shows we’ve recorded, play with toys and books, or do letter and number games on the iPad. I finish work around 5. If I haven’t made it to 6 hours for the day, I work in bed after Jax is asleep to make up the rest of the time.

This past weekend we visited my dad in his new apartment. He has Parkinson’s and it was becoming difficult for him to live on his own in his townhouse. His new place is in a great community with a lake view and plenty of amenities. He no longer drives, so it’s a big help to have so much at hand, plus rides to shopping. Eventually he can move up to assisted living if needed.

I’ll post again about my nearly 2-year-old! I can hardly believe how fast the time has gone. To quote Jax, “So Saaaaad!!” Heh. I’ll also share his birthday party – a sushi theme for my little sushi lover!

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Some Things I Learned in 2011

1. Take time to smell the flowers. Nothing is so important you can’t pause to spend 5 minutes with your loved ones.

2. I don’t feel anywhere near as old as I am. That’s a good thing, right?

3. I’m really good at leaving sippy cups behind.

4. Babies grow up too fast.

5. I still hate making phone calls for work, but I’m getting better at it.

6. It’s hard not having family close by. I’m a little jealous of those that do, but I’m grateful for what I have.

7. I don’t think I could ever kiss my sweet son enough.

8. I’m not as nervous about flying with a little one now that I’ve done it.

9. I can change a diaper super fast. Even when that baby is running away from me!

10. Bubbles are amazing when you’re one.

11. I’m more materialistic than I’d like to be. When I lose a favorite thing, it really pains me.

12. It doesn’t need batteries or licensed characters to be fun. This wooden kiddie car has been in our family 100 years. Jax adores it!

13. I’m actually glad that co-sleeping keeps me from turning the tv on in bed. I barely watch tv anymore, and I don’t mind. I read instead! Also, toddlers fill an entire king-size bed.

14. Sitting quietly in a morning sunbeam can brighten your whole day.

15. I need to make more friends.

16. Nightly toddler baths may take up my evenings, but I know I’ll miss them when they’re gone.

17. I’m pretty sure I won’t have the time or money to do all the creative projects in my head until Jax is off on his own. I’m trying to find a balance.

18. I hate cilantro. It tastes like day-old garbage to me. But I might be broken.

19. Teething is hard.

20. I’m trying to practice cooking more, but I’m really not good at it. Probably because I grew up with just my dad and his very limited culinary skills. But, I do love to bake! Let’s live off cookies!

21. I run errands when I’m lonely for adult interaction.

22. I’m really going to miss nursing when Jax weans. It exhausts me at times, but I couldn’t feel more bonded to him.

23. It’s weird and amazing when your child starts to talk.

24. I didn’t feel like myself in the months my hair wasn’t in braids. I chopped it all off to start fresh then hid it under hats until it was long enough to braid again.

25. I’m not sure anyone lives more in the moment than an almost-2-year-old.

26. I am always wishing I could buy myself new clothes and accessories, but I buy Jax clothes instead. After all, he’s the one constantly growing.

27. My baby loves “sushi”! (He eats miso soup soaked rice with heaps of tofu, crab sticks and edamame.) If you ask him what he wants for dinner, the answer is always “sushi”!

28. Aim high. Higher than you think you can reach. You may surprise yourself.

29. Time speeds up when you are a mom.

30. I wish I had more time to clean and organize during the times I am full of energy. I find it satisfying. I used to offer to clean friend’s rooms growing up.

31. Dogs are expensive. Benny’s current ear infection will likely cost us $1k we can’t afford. It’s a doozy.

32. I’m a little overwhelmed but the tantrums that are beginning to happen. But I try hard not to let them frazzle me.

33. Acknowledge and respect your children when they have something to say – even when they are just starting to talk. I was hushed often as a child and I realize now it hurt.

34. I love the iPhone I got this year. I don’t miss my Droid a single bit. And now that my whole side of the family has either iPhones or iPads, Jax gets to do FaceTime with them.

35. Make some time to get messy and creative. I always feel better after creating something beautiful.

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Jax’s Christmas List

This post is mostly for family and close friends who have asked about Jax’s wishlist, likes and sizes.

To read about our family portraits, click here.

But first a note for all our online and far away friends. Jax (and I!) love mail. He especially likes cards that open and kids’ drawings. If you’d like to send him a holiday card or drawing, he’ll return the favor! Make sure to have a clear name and address we’ll be writing back to. I only have a few extra holiday photo cards, so you’d likely be getting a custom Jax creation.

Jax Segall, 43300-116 Southern Walk Plaza #234, Broadlands, VA 20148-4463

Jax’s Wishlist is an Amazon list of ideas I’ve put together. You could shop from it or just use it for ideas. Here is some of what is on it: I am making him a wooden play barn (for scale, it is being made out of a dollhouse) so any wooden farm animals/vehicles/etc would be great to go along with it. Our “little chef” has a play kitchen and LOVES anything to do with play food. Wooden food sets or kitchen accessories would be a big hit. He loves drawing, painting and stickers. Building with blocks, climbing and sliding. He’s started playing more with musical toys and loves to “dance” to their tunes.

Jax is wearing size 18 months. We are buying larger – 24 months to 2T. He really needs winter footie pajamas in size 24 months that he can wear right away. Sweaters, hoodies and fleece tops. A snow suit and boots. Spring/summer clothes should be 2T. He wears shoe size 6 toddler right now, so I’d go with a 7. He’ll be growing out of his brown loafers soon and has outgrown his black shoes. He loves hats, but has a big head. Go for hats for 2 – 3 year olds! He likes to wear Washington Capitals gear and will say “hockey” and “let’s go Caps!”. He has outgrown his infant jersey and hat.

Random useful things: socks, tableware/cups, place mats (to phase out his highchair tray) and  iTunes gift cards (for educational games).

If you want my wishlist, it’s here. But, Christmas is all about the little ones!

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Jax’s First Salon Haircut

Yesterday we took Jax along to Dan’s haircut appointment so he could get one as well. He was starting to sport a baby mullet.

Just waiting for my haircut. No big deal.

He waited patiently while daddy got his haircut, but was not pleased at all when we put him in his lap and the scissors came his way! I ended up holding him and letting him play a puzzle game on my iPhone while she trimmed him up. After that the wiggling was down to a minimum.

I don’t have a good “After” photo yet, but the mullet is gone! We kept all the length on top since it is still filling in.

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Happy Halloween!

After a couple weeks of sewing a half hour a night after dinner, I got Jax’s Halloween costume done! This is probably the last year I get to choose his costume. I’ve wanted to sew him a Brobee costume since last year, but it was just too much effort for a baby that wasn’t going trick-or-treating. I know Yo Gabba Gabba is a little obscure, but everyone recognizes that he is dressed as a “little green monster” just fine! When I started planning the costume, I knew I needed to have a base pattern to work with. I originally was looking at long pajama patterns, but when I figured out how much work the costume would be, I wanted to …

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19 Months Old

My little baby boy is now a big 19-month-old! Time sure flies… I wish I could freeze him like this for a while. He is still so sweet and cuddly, but he’s also independent and full of curiosity!

I’ve been working on a big sewing project for Jax. I’m making him a Quiet Book to bring on his first plane ride out to California in November. It’s a huge undertaking, so I’m trying to get two pages done per week. Lots of drawing, cutting and hand-sewing, but I hope this activity book with become a family heirloom for him.

I’ve been busy, busy, busy on our family blog! Check it out:

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Our Morning Adventures

Jax is currently napping off our morning adventures… His daddy worked the overnight shift and Jax had trouble sleeping. That lead to him being crazy and loud right when my husband was going to sleep in the morning, so I got him out of the house.

I drove out to one of Jax’s favorite playgrounds that has an airplane theme. After playing for a while, we sat in the breeze and shared a mango smoothie. We walked hand-in-hand to the pet store for crickets and he pulled my hand to his mouth and gave me a loud kiss: “Mwah!!” So sweet.

On our way home, I saw a large Collie running across the road. I pulled over into a turn lane by the median, but he had already crossed the other side of the road. I was able to U-turn and park in another turn lane near where he was sniffing. I popped the back of my SUV and crouched down to call him. He was super sweet and came running to me. I helped him into the car, then got in the backseat to call the number on his tags. Turns out he wasn’t too far from home – well, his new home. His address was listed as Omaha (we are in Virginia!), but his new address was only a couple minutes’ drive away. His mom had her son meet me outside so I could deliver him safe and sound. I was happy to help a dog in need! I can’t let a dog run around in the street without stopping to help.

Jax had his first encounter with a playground bully today. Read about it here.

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Weekend Road Trip to NY

We just took a trip to New York last weekend. Jax did really well on the drive to Long Island. We drove up on a Thursday. On Friday, Dan dropped his car off to get some work done (the main reason for the trip) and we hopped on the train into Manhattan. It was hot, hot, hot! I wore Jax in the baby carrier the entire time and he did so well! He is like his daddy with how much he sweats, but like me in that he turns red when he gets too hot. So when he would start to get too hot, we made sure to take a break in the air conditioner. In a place like NYC, …

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We were in a flash mob!

Check out my post about our flash mob experience on Imagine Our Life!!

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March for Babies

On Sunday, Jax and I will be doing the March of Dimes “March for Babies”. We had to lower our goal from $500 to $200 as we are running out of time, but if you can spare a few dollars towards our 4 mile walk for premature babies, it would mean so much to us!

While Jax was born only 2 week early, full-term and healthy, my life-changing experience with miscarriage has shown me how heart-wrenching it can be to have something go wrong in pregnancy or child birth. March of Dimes helps give babies a fighting chance whenever possible!

I am honored to have the chance to walk with Jax for the March of Dimes. I appreciate the support you all have shown me – both monetary and moral! xoxo!

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